Do it for the haters' vs do it for yourself
- Abir Nefida
- Mar 31, 2019
- 2 min read
Updated: Apr 8, 2019
Which one would you choose?

Actually, the answer doesn't really matter as much as the result. In both cases u want to succeed, you have a goal to achieve and you're willing to make a change.
We all agree on "ain't that easy as it seems" but ain't impossible either! The first step is always hard. After that step, everything becomes clear and reachable until you get tired and demotivated. Stick till the end is the hardest step. We all had goals that we have written on our planner and most of them we never had the courage and the motivation to finish all the way we have drawn. Now the question is why we give up in the middle of the things that seemed important to us. Well, after all it "matters".To whom you're doing it really matters. It's important as much as the goal. It's the only thing that will make you move forward. When you do it for others,especially if you hate them or hate the fact they think u won't succeed will make u fall apart in some point at your journey sooner or later. You will start questioning why am I doing this? Who are they? F* them all. Why do I even care about this whole s* ... I'm not going anywhere with this,it was stupid to think I could show them how good I am...This is how it goes most of the times.
Although, this could go differently when u do things for yourself. I'll stop smoking cause I want to stay healthy. I'll lose weight to feel good and be healthy. I'll study hard to be the first and have better opportunities...
Do it for yourself, treat yourself better, only you can change your life to a great one.
Learn to live for You not for anyone else, there's only one life so make sure not waste it. Enjoy every minute of your life by finding the happiness inside you. You deserve better, we all do!
"Life is 10%what happens to you and 90%how you react to it".Smile more to yourself in the mirror, to people, to the good music, a tasty coffee...Smiling is a way of reminding yourself to stay positive no matter what.
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